Pain and suffering are inevitable in life and there are many men and women that hold on to it refusing to move on. It is important for you to embrace pain and suffering for the evolution of the soul. There is no point blaming others for your plight as they are not responsible for your pain. Like you they have their pain and suffering as well. No one is perfect and it is important for you not to expect life to be a bed of roses as in real it is not. You need to be strong and courageous to face life. This can be done with the aid of reaching out to God and following His ways!
Ron Hindt- Reach out to God with him
Ron Hindt is the Senior Pastor at Calvary Houston. He says that when it comes to the sermons of the Bible, he explains them in simple ways so that more and more people are able to embrace them and reach out to the Lord. He says that many people live with pain and betrayal. Perhaps they have caused the pain to someone and face extreme levels of guilt. They find no mental peace. He says that often it is important for you to forgive yourself as this is the first stepping point towards forgiving others. There is no point holding on to the hurt and the pain caused to you by others. It will only invite misery in your life. It is crucial for you to be aware that if you forgive others you will release the negative feelings and emotions in your body. This means you effectively are able to release past events and people and let them go.
Accept people the way they are
Most people often wish to change the people around them. This is not the right approach or attitude for happiness. Man is a social animal and when it comes to living with others, it is crucial for you to ensure that you do not try to change them. Accepting people the way they are is the key to happiness. Most people face tensions and stress in their family and relationships. Expectations are high and the urge to change the other person is dominant. It is here that you need to understand that the simple attitude of acceptance can really change things around and help you bring in balance and harmony in life.
Pastor Ron Hindt says that you have been born with a mission to spread joy and happiness. Pain and suffering are inevitable and you cannot change the events or even some of the people that walk into your life. It is here that you should practice the gift of forgiveness as this will help you in a large way to accept people the way they are and bring in harmony, peace and love in your life. Forgiveness, acceptance and love are needed for a happy life and with regular practice at least for some time, you will find that they become a habit!